Wednesday, September 27, 2017

Beauty of the Beautiful Mind


We meet hundreds of people in a week and almost met thousands in our life, but there are just a few of them from which we get inspired and wants to be just like them. So today I am going to give you those tips and moral codes which are adopted or part of those personalities from which you get inspired. By adopting or making these tips, you would surely become the one from which people get inspired and make your life beautiful too.

Passionate:

They are passionate about their goals because they have a crystal clear vision. They know about their strengths and weaknesses, obviously not the common ones. They have the spark and they use it to make fire. Great people work on themselves to find their inner skill, master it and show it to the world.

“You’ve always had the power, my dear, you just had to learn it for yourself.”


Spread Positivity:

“Be with someone who brings out the best in you. Not the stress in you”

That’s the habit of the people having a beautiful mind which sustains their ability.
They ignore the distress and try to keep themselves away from discouraging objects. They make their surroundings positive and make them beautiful. They keep the company of their likings and people with same thoughts. They spread and cultivates positivity.

Beautiful Heart + Beautiful Mind = Creation and Cultivation of beauty


Prepare themselves:

People who have done great are those who are the most ambitious and innovative. They don’t copy others, in fact, they come up with their own new and creative ideas.
Most of you would say that they are GOD GIFTED 0r lucky. Well, I don’t agree much with you on this, because it's not the case every time.

“Luck favors the prepared mind”

There are so many examples people who were not brilliant enough first but gradually they invest in themselves to be brilliant and to compete with the GOD gifted ones.

If you’re not going to invest in yourself, what will you invest in then?

Ambitious people get their motivation from their ideal and start doing by themselves.They educate themselves and update their knowledge on a regular basis so that they could not be in the stream of losers.

“If you want to be powerful, EDUCATE yourself.”

Confident:

People with beautiful mind have another beautiful and powerful skill which is their 'confidence’. They are self-confident, intelligent and ambitious. Confident people always excel in every field. They take risks and face the failure (if they fail).

“Confidence and intelligence will never stop being beautiful.”

Inspiring Attitude:

Beautiful minds inspire others. People having a beautiful mind are always helping and they try to enlighten the ones who need their guidance. They appreciate the work of others and give them the credit, in spite of discouraging them or letting them down. They inspire others with their attitude and charisma.
"No man will become a great leader who wants to get all the credit for doing it"

Listen to Others:

They think people as the greatest source of knowledge. Because no one knows where the next great idea will come from. So they listen to them, encourage them and give them proper feedback where or when required.


Forgive Anyway:

People with beautiful mind keep another ability, that is to forgive. How worse the scenario becomes, they ignore the negative and forgive.

“When someone does something wrong, don’t forget all the things they did right.”

Great people know that there are situations with everyone when they do something to others which they shouldn’t. They realize that there would be something bad in others life, and which they are unable to handle. So they forgive, (either that person apologizes or not) and move on.

“It takes a heart to forgive and a brain to move on.”

Thursday, September 21, 2017

How to Let the Pessimism Go....

One of the most powerful habits that I’ve picked up in the past couple of months is to think in a more optimistic and constructive way.
It makes life feel lighter and not so burdensome. It opens up new paths towards where you want to go and it helps you to more easily overcome setbacks (and often get something good out of them).
You’ll feel less worried and sorry for yourself and more motivated to keep trying to achieve your goals.
But how do you adopt this habit?
Well, learning to think in a more positive way may sound a bit vague so in this week’s article, I am breaking down it into 5 practical tips and smaller habits that you can start using today and can change your life.

1. Start replacing the negativity in your surroundings and life.

What you let into your mind during your regular day will have a big effect on how you think and feel.
So start questioning what you let into your mind.
You can do that by asking yourself, and when you come up with the answer, start working on finding their solutions.
Do it by reading some novel, motivational blog or listening to your favourite music and so on.

2. Work out regularly.

Most of you have heard that 'a healthy body has a healthy mind'.When I have a tough time thinking myself out of negative thoughts then a short 20-30 minute walk with free mind helps me to clear the mess going in my mind.
It is the time that helps me releasing so many inner tensions, worried feelings and makes me prepared to face the next upcoming challenges.

3. Deal with the Rejection.

Everyone has faced rejection or failed in his/her life. The actual question is how to deal with those rejections.I too face rejections most of the time and sometimes I get tired or feel down but something gives me courage and I want to share a quote with you guys which boosts my motivation and help me to face the rejection.

Ever tried. Ever failed. No matter. Try Again. Fail again. Fail better.”
Samuel Beckett


4. Share it.

'Problem gets divided when shared'.So when I have some problem going in my mind, I share it with my friends or family for their guidance and mostly I come up with a solution.

5. Let it Go.

The last and most important solution is to 'Let it Go'.if after trying and thinking over too much on the same problem gets you not the solution, then put it there and just let it go.Let the time to do its work and you will surely find a way to deal with the problem in a proper way.

"Don't ruin a good today by thinking about a bad yesterday.Let it Go"


Tuesday, June 27, 2017

Ways to be Happy and Productive


I was one of those people that when asked what they want in life, would say, “I just want to be happy…”
Here’s are some ways, I use now to be happy:

Create a Life you Love

While most people would argue having a life you love will make you happy, I would argue that happiness will help you to create a life you love.
Make your life as you dream it to be.You are the writer of your own life book.

Don't take things so Seriously

“You wouldn’t worry so much about what others think of you if you realized how seldom they do.”

Life is not easier for anyone of us these days so be calm and find a way out to handle the situation you are in.Don't be jealous to see someone who is smiling and chilling around.Everyone has his own problems.One can't remain happy if he/she takes everything seriously or takes too much stress.The best solution for this is to find a way to relax, breathe and think about your options and then you would find a best optimal solution to your problem.


Make Friends

Friends,Happy,EnjoyFriends are a gift of nature and good friends are a truly rare gift.Friends are the companions you have in your life either for a time or a lifetime.Friends are the guys with whom you could share your worries and you could get a solution. Go with them to enjoy life and to take some break from the hectic routine life.

If you can't find one good enough then be one.Well, talk to your friends, share their problems and help them to find a solution to their problems.


Stay Busy

Relax,BusyYou would probably be thinking how someone stays happy while staying busy, right?You might be right as of how one could stay happy doing something very important.Well, the answer lies in the nature of work you are doing.if it's boring and needs a lot of mental exercises, it would be boring or rather leads you to stress or even depression, in case it's not working your way.But when the work or task is of your interest or about which you are passionate then time will fly and you would be happy, productive and frantic.You will enjoy the work ignoring all the negative thoughts away from your mind.


Consider your Experience as treasure

What is a treasure for you?Do you treasure yourself with money, buying new gadgets or some new luxury item in your possession?The good point here is that you value something, so just think for a moment which of these items will go with you in your whole life?Obviously, the answer is 'None'.So why not treasure yourself with something which you could carry with yourself everywhere.
ExperienceIn my opinion,'Experience' is the thing you should treasure yourself with, focusing on your strengths, and come over on your weaknesses and progress in life.Experience is the tool you will carry with yourself throughout your life whatever the situation is.You will feel happy that you have your tool with you.You are hopeful and you're no more dependent on others.You can learn something every time you do something.
"Be brave,take risks,nothing can substitute Experience"

Don't ever fear from your failures or mistakes.
"Mistakes are lessons inside out !!!... "

Eat Healthy & Smart

Every one of you must have heard the saying i.e."A healthy body has a healthy mind".So you should stay healthy for better life and do things in a timely manner.Most of us take meals three times a day and eat a lot. Most of the time it's junk food which is not healthier. According to a research, you should eat smartly.The way to do it is simple, just break your meals per day more than 3 times a day and drink at least 10 glasses of water to keep yourself hydrated which would ultimately make you more progressive/productive.

Go for it

You were put on this world for a reason. You have a claim to this world, and it might not be taken.
Friends,Happy,Enjoy

Wednesday, April 26, 2017

How to find Motivation

We all reach crucial points in our lives where our mental strength is tested. it'd be a troublesome friend or colleague, your job, or a troubled relationship.

Whatever the challenge, you've got to be robust, see things through a brand new lens, and take decisive action if you would like to maneuver through it with success.

"We forge the chains we wear in life."


Be Confident:
Mentally robust guys subscribe Ford’s notion that your mentality contains a powerful result on your ability to succeed. This notion isn’t simply a psychological feature tool—it’s a truth. Mentally robust folks are a versatile unit and area unit perpetually adapting. They recognize that the concern of the amendment is paralyzing and a significant threat to their success and happiness. They give the impression of being for an amendment that's lurking simply round the corner, and that they kind an idea of action ought to these changes occur.
Find Motivation

Only when you embrace amendment are you able to realize the great in it. You would like to own associate degree open mind and open arms if you’re reaching to acknowledge and maximize, the opportunities that amendment creates.


Be Positive:

When we think of the word “positive,” most of us probably think “happy.” However, happiness isn’t the only type of positivity. There are many ways to be more positive in your life, even when you’re experiencing sadness, anger, or challenges. However, mentally robust people don’t worry this as a result of them don’t get wedged in things they can’t manageRather than making an attempt to start out a revolution long, they focus their energy. So surround yourself with positive thoughts as they are the key to be positive and motivated.

Take a Pause:

how to find motivation
Performing regular meditation is like speaking directly and commanding the “beast” that we call the subconscious mind. All you have to do is find a quiet spot, sit in a comfortable position.It may be your bedroom or a balcony of your office or house and begin deep and slow breathing for a few minutes, focusing merely on your breathing and shutting out everything else. It will make you calm and leads to let you find solution for your problems and motivation to do things with a fresh mind.

Follow your Ideal:

Everyone idealizes someone in most of the matters in life to which they follow in the different situations of the timeSo similarly when you find yourself demotivated or deserted, think of your ideal, or your mentor that what would he/she do in such scenariohow they would find a path or a solution to resolve this matter or walk through this situationBelieve mewhen you will do thisyou will surely find light, motivation and would make your way through.

Embrace failure:

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Try to embrace failure as a result of them recognize that the road to success is made-up with it. Nobody ever knowledgeable true success while not 1st hold failure. By revealing once you’re on the incorrect path, your mistakes pave the method for you to succeed. The largest breakthroughs usually return once you’re feeling the foremost pissed off and therefore the most stuck. It’s this frustration that forces you to suppose otherwise, to appear outside the box, and to envision the answer that you’ve been missing.So take motivation from this and struggle for your goals.

"I am thankful to those who said 'NO' to me.It's because of them I did it myself". Albert Einstein

Don't Give Up:

Don't Give UP

Having a rough day?Place your hand over your heart.Feel that?That's called purpose.You're alive for a reason.

When you fail or make a mistake don’t give up.
Don’t beat yourself up. Instead nudge yourself back on track again.Remember, Don't Give UP...!!!!


Get enough sleep:

It’s troublesome to overdraw the importance of sleep to increase your mental strength. After you sleep, your brain removes carcinogenic proteins. Sadly, your brain will take away them adequately solely whereas you’re asleep, therefore after you don’t get enough sleep, the carcinogenic proteins stay in your brain cells, wreaking mayhem by impairing your ability to think—something no quantity of caffeine will fix.


Monday, April 24, 2017

How to Live Happy


Today I will share how to make life easy and live it with happiness.
Here are some major key points, pick any one of them, you will find happiness and how to be happy and live a happy life.

Be what YOU are:

It is very important to know yourself i.e. Your strengths, your weakness, your interests, what you like and what you dislike.
Remember:
Everyone in this universe has his/her own individuality with which he/she lives.

Happiness 
is an inside job."Think happy and Be happy".

So never ever compare yourself with others.If you do so, you are dishonoring yourself.So believe in yourself, in your strengths and you will be happy and would achieve whatever you try for.


Surround Yourself with Positive Thoughts:

Boost positivity,happy
The next important thing to be happy or to find happiness is to surround yourself with positive thoughts.The most simple way of achieving this is by surrounding yourself with Positive people.People who are encouraging and with the same school of thoughts as you are.

Be Optimistic and Grateful:

Pessimism can only lead you towards anger, distress, and disappointment. You will be ungrateful for what you have in life and lose their importance.It will limit your strengths, abilities and fill your mind with negative thoughts.
Optimistic approach is the key to find happiness. You should be thankful for what gifts GOD or nature has bestowed upon you.Start it with your own self in the morning by reminding your mind that it would be a great day ahead and you will see that your day would be great.Our body obeys the mind and mind work on our thoughts.if we could control our thoughts we could achieve our goals.
A pessimist sees the difficulty in every opportunity; an optimist sees the opportunity in every difficulty."

Turning Negative into Positive:

Be Positive,Think PositiveTo find happiness, you must have a positive attitude and that comes from positive thoughts.So you must control your mind to think positive by continuously forcing it to think positive.Your inner critic may be one of biggest obstacles in your way of that. If you make a mistake or fail, if someone criticizes you or if you are just getting tired then that small inner voice can become louder and louder and keep you down.

"I never Loose, Either i win or i learn"


Your approach should always be positive.You must try to turn the negative into positive.You could achieve this by saying a big 'NO' to those negative thoughts which come into your mind.Rerouting your thoughts will lead you to the path of happiness.


"I already possess all, i need to be HAPPY"


Find time for your Own self:

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Always find time for your own self. Nowadays, life is so hectic and busy that one can't find enough time for his/her self.So try to save some time for yourself from the 24 hours of your daily schedule.
Here are some ideas which would help you in this matter.

  • Ask question to yourself that how can I live happily?What must I do to stay happy?
  • Before you are going to sleep, spare 5-10 minutes of your time on just concentrating on yourself, think about your whole day activity i.e. what positive things you did?what goals you had achieved and what made you happy today or by just thinking about the future that what could make you happy?
  • Moreover, forgive everyone before you sleep, as it will not change others but it will give you satisfaction and comfortable sleep.
  • Best idea is to do a little walk, talking with your own self 
  • You should find a hobby for yourself such as 'reading, exercise, join an educational class, join some social group of your interest' etc 
"Don't waste a minute not being happy. If one window closes, run to the next window- or break down a door."

Manage Your STRESS:

How to be happy

Manage your stress by keeping things simple.There is a rule to deal with problems.i.e. "Divide & Conquer".So according to this, divide your big problem into small ones and focus on them.

"Conquer your mind and you can conquer the world"

Learn from your previous experience.After solving small problems ultimately your whole problem would be solved.
"Much of the stress that people feel doesn't come from having too much to do. It comes from not finishing what they've started." David Allen

Help out:

There is a Chinese saying that goes:

“If you want happiness for an hour, take a nap. If you want happiness for a day, go fishing. If you want happiness for a year, inherit a fortune. If you want happiness for a lifetime, help somebody.”

Happiness is found in helping others.For it is in giving that we receive, right?

Make them Happen:

Set your goals and start to struggle to make them happen. Achieving your goals or dreams needs passion, time and hard work.If you think that you could do that and you have the passion then you will surely achieve your goals and trust me you will be so excited, happy after achieving them. And your confidence will instantly boost up. So are you ready to make them happen?

Change Today:

"Be happy with what you have. Be excited about what you want.Alan Cohen

Remember, it’s not too late to change yourself and your life.So if you want to change yourself, start today with what you have right now.